Comments on: Why Do People You Don't Get Along With Add You On Facebook? http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/ Fri, 03 Feb 2012 11:28:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Kelly http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/#comment-149 Kelly Sat, 09 Jan 2010 23:25:40 +0000 http://www.bryanhauer.com/?p=1104#comment-149 The strangest add was a request from a girl who claimed to be a celebrity. She added me, got to know me, faked her own dead after admitting she was a fake, and then accused one of our good friends at the time for stealing her pictures when he put a photo of her under his "Friends" album. She still to this day hates me because she thinks I stole her photos. I don't know why she added me, really. The strangest add was a request from a girl who claimed to be a celebrity. She added me, got to know me, faked her own dead after admitting she was a fake, and then accused one of our good friends at the time for stealing her pictures when he put a photo of her under his "Friends" album. She still to this day hates me because she thinks I stole her photos. I don't know why she added me, really.

]]> By: erika http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/#comment-148 erika Sat, 14 Nov 2009 21:18:48 +0000 http://www.bryanhauer.com/?p=1104#comment-148 I'm on facebook and myspace.I like myspace better but I had one friend who wanted to chat on facebook so I got an account. I had already learned through myspace that people that barely knew me would decide they wanted to catch up. So I set up my myspace so that it's hard for people to find me and left my facebook open for all the strange people that would feel the need to speak to me. Lately I've had a lot of hits from people I went to school with, one of which I didn't even know exsisted. I checked my yearbook couldn't find him and sat there wondering how in the world he knew who I was. The weridest request I ever had and the only person I've denied as of now was a high school substitute teacher who just happens to be one of the few that I couldn't stand. I'm still uncertain how she seemed to miss the fact that I prefered not to be in the same room as her. I'm on facebook and myspace.I like myspace better but I had one friend who wanted to chat on facebook so I got an account. I had already learned through myspace that people that barely knew me would decide they wanted to catch up. So I set up my myspace so that it's hard for people to find me and left my facebook open for all the strange people that would feel the need to speak to me. Lately I've had a lot of hits from people I went to school with, one of which I didn't even know exsisted. I checked my yearbook couldn't find him and sat there wondering how in the world he knew who I was. The weridest request I ever had and the only person I've denied as of now was a high school substitute teacher who just happens to be one of the few that I couldn't stand. I'm still uncertain how she seemed to miss the fact that I prefered not to be in the same room as her.

]]> By: Joe http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/#comment-147 Joe Mon, 09 Nov 2009 12:11:55 +0000 http://www.bryanhauer.com/?p=1104#comment-147 I guess I'm on the other end of that coin because when I find people on Facebook I knew from way back,some even an influence on me,don't even respond when I send them a message! I guess that shows how they really feel huh^ It's like what did I do so effen wrong? I guess I'm on the other end of that coin because when I find people on Facebook I knew from way back,some even an influence on me,don't even respond when I send them a message! I guess that shows how they really feel huh^ It's like what did I do so effen wrong?

]]> By: Bryan Hauer http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/#comment-146 Bryan Hauer Sun, 14 Jun 2009 23:41:06 +0000 http://www.bryanhauer.com/?p=1104#comment-146 I think a lot of this falls into the saying... "Keep your friends close, but your enemies even closer." @Audrey - Go to the baby shower, but just stay clear from the problem friend and by no means add her again cause yes it will just stir up the same drama. Life's already tough enough as it is and lot more fun when you're not constantly worrying about other people's drama. I think a lot of this falls into the saying… "Keep your friends close, but your enemies even closer."

@Audrey – Go to the baby shower, but just stay clear from the problem friend and by no means add her again cause yes it will just stir up the same drama.

Life's already tough enough as it is and lot more fun when you're not constantly worrying about other people's drama.

]]> By: Audrey Finney http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/#comment-145 Audrey Finney Sun, 14 Jun 2009 23:35:06 +0000 http://www.bryanhauer.com/?p=1104#comment-145 i stumbled across this by typing into google “what do you do when you go to a party with people there you don’t get along with”. just to see what would pop up. i am dwelling on this and i feel really nervous about it. i was recently invited to a baby shower of an old friend from a church i went to a long time ago. we all grew up together and everyone she’s invited, i know. anyway, there is one girl that i am sure will be there. her and i have a huge history of ups and downs. we were best friends at one point growing up. but when i think back on it all, she was never a real friend. and i am not just saying that out of spite. there was a lot of jealousy on her part and i don’t understand why. we were friends on myspace and would talk once in a great while. typically when something was going good for her and she wanted to show off. i can read people like a book and it all got to be so pathetic and childish. her posting pics of herself to copy me and saying things in her status that were implied towards me. i ended up deleting my account. just wanted to move away from it all. went to fb and learned that it was much better. well, she’s made a few attempts to request my friendship on there. i just hit ignore. but being the nice person that i am and how i was raised, i actually feel bad about it. she probably wonders why i won’t accept. she hasn’t messaged me, YET, but i don’t plan to respond if she does. or should i? i just know that she only wants to keep tabs on me. it’s always been that way. it’s just a really really really LONG story. lots of things to do with our past.. and i just want to move on. but i feel like i can’t do that because we are ALWAYS coming back into each other’s lives one way or another. but i honestly feel bad for feeling this way. but she’s never brought anything positive to the friendship. i just don’t know what to do about this shower though. i don’t want to NOT go just because of her. but i also don’t want to talk to her. or be fake. because i know that if she tried talking to me i would just get sucked right back in to talking to her and then end up adding her on fb. and that would start up all that drama again. if you have any advice, it would be greatly appreciated. i know this sounds like a load of high school drama.. and that’s just what it is.. but i am trying to be the smart one here.. and move on with MY life.. without her. but nicely. i don’t want to cherish any hard feelings.. or end things badly.. i stumbled across this by typing into google “what do you do when you go to a party with people there you don’t get along with”. just to see what would pop up. i am dwelling on this and i feel really nervous about it. i was recently invited to a baby shower of an old friend from a church i went to a long time ago. we all grew up together and everyone she’s invited, i know. anyway, there is one girl that i am sure will be there. her and i have a huge history of ups and downs. we were best friends at one point growing up. but when i think back on it all, she was never a real friend. and i am not just saying that out of spite. there was a lot of jealousy on her part and i don’t understand why. we were friends on myspace and would talk once in a great while. typically when something was going good for her and she wanted to show off. i can read people like a book and it all got to be so pathetic and childish. her posting pics of herself to copy me and saying things in her status that were implied towards me. i ended up deleting my account. just wanted to move away from it all. went to fb and learned that it was much better. well, she’s made a few attempts to request my friendship on there. i just hit ignore. but being the nice person that i am and how i was raised, i actually feel bad about it. she probably wonders why i won’t accept. she hasn’t messaged me, YET, but i don’t plan to respond if she does. or should i? i just know that she only wants to keep tabs on me. it’s always been that way. it’s just a really really really LONG story. lots of things to do with our past.. and i just want to move on. but i feel like i can’t do that because we are ALWAYS coming back into each other’s lives one way or another. but i honestly feel bad for feeling this way. but she’s never brought anything positive to the friendship. i just don’t know what to do about this shower though. i don’t want to NOT go just because of her. but i also don’t want to talk to her. or be fake. because i know that if she tried talking to me i would just get sucked right back in to talking to her and then end up adding her on fb. and that would start up all that drama again. if you have any advice, it would be greatly appreciated. i know this sounds like a load of high school drama.. and that’s just what it is.. but i am trying to be the smart one here.. and move on with MY life.. without her. but nicely. i don’t want to cherish any hard feelings.. or end things badly..

]]> By: Chaaz http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/#comment-144 Chaaz Fri, 15 May 2009 02:39:42 +0000 http://www.bryanhauer.com/?p=1104#comment-144 Yeah. good question. I hit ignore or i dont respond. It's weird, i have that as well. Plus what i don;t understand is WHY random people you don't know and people u just met, and who don't really call you or respond to your calls add you on facebook especially when they don't talk to u much? Yeah. good question. I hit ignore or i dont respond. It's weird, i have that as well.

Plus what i don;t understand is WHY random people you don't know and people u just met, and who don't really call you or respond to your calls add you on facebook especially when they don't talk to u much?

]]> By: Bryan Hauer http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/#comment-143 Bryan Hauer Tue, 21 Apr 2009 13:58:02 +0000 http://www.bryanhauer.com/?p=1104#comment-143 Haha! Ya my mom followed me on Twitter a few weeks back. I felt I had no choice but to resort to a phone call to explain to her I didn't want her seeing "everything" I was doing. She still thinks I'm somewhat of an angel and I can't screw that up. :) Haha! Ya my mom followed me on Twitter a few weeks back. I felt I had no choice but to resort to a phone call to explain to her I didn't want her seeing "everything" I was doing. She still thinks I'm somewhat of an angel and I can't screw that up. :)

]]> By: Jenny Joubert http://www.bryanhauer.com/2009/04/20/why-do-people-you-dont-get-along-with-add-you-on-facebook/#comment-142 Jenny Joubert Tue, 21 Apr 2009 05:36:07 +0000 http://www.bryanhauer.com/?p=1104#comment-142 I guess I'm just a "dick" too! I just "IGNORE"--then they've come back a 2nd, sometimes 3rd time - so more of the same......"IGNORE" !!! Then asks other people who we share on FB why----DUH! Shut the hell up right? Wierdest? hmmmm.....Probably (Prolly) my mother!!! She's on FB more than I- tells me what's going on with everyone. Funny as hell. I guess I'm just a "dick" too! I just "IGNORE"–then they've come back a 2nd, sometimes 3rd time – so more of the same……"IGNORE" !!! Then asks other people who we share on FB why—-DUH! Shut the hell up right? Wierdest? hmmmm…..Probably (Prolly) my mother!!! She's on FB more than I- tells me what's going on with everyone. Funny as hell.

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